.NET自带的有MAIL类,可以自己发邮件,不过要SMTP服务器的支持 
 对于我们这些寄居于别人服务器的,一般都没有装,就要用到第三方免费邮件提供商 
 因为没有验证用户信息,发出的信件会被很多服务器所拒收,还是用JMAIL发吧 
 安装JMAIL组件,在VS里添加对组件的引用 
 程序代码

 using System;
 using System.Web.Util;
 using System.Web.Mail;
 using jmail;//引用JMAIL
 namespace shop.web
 {
     /// <summary>
     /// mail 的摘要说明。
     /// </summary>
     /// 
     //属性
     public class mail_item
     {
         public string _server_user;
         public string _server_pass;
         public string _from;
         public string _from_name;
         public string _to;
         public string _subject;
         public string _body;
         public string _smtp_server;
         public string server_user
         {
             get
             {
                 return _server_user;
             }
             set
             {
                 _server_user=value;
             }
         }
         public string server_pass
         {
             get
             {
                 return _server_pass;
             }
             set
             {
                 _server_pass=value;
             }
         }
         public string from
         {
             get
             {
                 return _from;
             }
             set
             {
                 _from=value;
             }
         }
         public string from_name
         {
             get
             {
                 return _from_name;
             }
             set
             {
                 _from_name=value;
             }
         }
         public string to
         {
             get
             {
                 return _to;
             }
             set
             {
                 _to=value;
             }
         }
         public string subject
         {
             get
             {
                 return _subject;
             }
             set
             {
                 _subject=value;
             }
         }
         public string body
         {
             get
             {
                 return _body;
             }
             set
             {
                 _body=value;
             }
         }
         public string smtp_server
         {
             get
             {
                 return _smtp_server;
             }
             set
             {
                 _smtp_server=value;
             }
         }
 
     }
     public class mail
     {
 
         public bool send(mail_item nn)
         {
             bool sed=true;
             //POP3  pop3=new POP3();
             Message msg=new Message();
             msg.Silent = true;
             msg.Logging = true;
             msg.Charset = "gb2312";
             //jmail.IMessage.MailServerUserName
             msg.MailServerUserName =nn.server_user;
             msg.MailServerPassWord =nn.server_pass;
             msg.From =nn.from;
             msg.FromName =nn.from_name;
             msg.AddRecipient(nn.to,"","");
             msg.Subject =nn.subject;
             msg.Body =nn.body;
             msg.AppendHTML(nn.body);//设置为HTML
             if(!msg.Send(nn.smtp_server,false))
                 sed=false;
             msg.Close();
             return sed;
         }
         
 
     }
 }

  
 实例 
  
.NET用JMAIL发邮件_c# 程序代码
mail_item item=new mail_item();
             mail mm=new mail();
             item.server_user="ggy";//邮件服务器你的用户名
             item.server_pass="fft";//邮件服务器你的密码
             item.from="ggy@163.com";//你的邮箱
             item.from_name="hubro";
             item.to=email.Text;
             item.subject="test";
             item.body="<b>this is a text</b>";
             item.smtp_server="smtp.163.com";//smtp邮件服务器
             if(!mm.send(item))
             {
                 msg="邮件发送失败,请联系管理员";
             }

  
 OK,可以发邮件了